Seven Steps to Creating a Healthy Eater

We nourish our children, hoping that our children are receiving the nutrients that will allow their bodies to grow to their healthiest potential. Our intentions are admirable, but at times we become too concerned with the details and lose sight of the goal. We suddenly become desperate for our child to eat one more bite of broccoli, as if this bite determines health or illness. Other times we make sweeping rules for ourselves and families, such as "we are never going to eat chocolate again." Most likely this doesn't last and we feel like we are failing as a parent.

Creating a healthy eater is about the big picture. Over the past month did I or my family eat a variety of healthy foods (whole grains, fruits, vegetables, dairy, eggs, beans, low fat meats, fish, nuts and seeds)? Was more that half of what we ate real, whole foods? Did I allow my family to:

1.Eat when they are hungry

2.Stop eating when they are sated (full)

3.Eat mostly healthy foods

4.Eat some fun foods

Did I not encourage my family to eat to

5.Please others

6.Avoid something

7.Receive something

These are the 7 tenants to creating a healthy eater. We should only eat when we are hungry, not to get something, avoid something, or please someone else. Are you forcing your child to eat for the wrong reasons? The promise of dessert if a child eats one more bite is the wrong reason to eat. The threat of a punishment for not trying a new food is not a healthy incentive to eating.

Did you allow for the enjoyment of some fun foods? Fun foods are also part of the diet of a healthy eater. I person constantly deprived of fun foods, or offered fun foods only are a reward (bribe) will likely become overly concerned with having these foods. The perceived deprivation many times leads to over-indulgence in these foods when the eater is allowed to make their own food choices. As many fun foods are high in sugar and fat, this over-indulgence can lead to over weight. Moderation and mindful eating are the goals for eating all foods, including those that are just for fun.